Comments on: The Death of Bailey Thrasher

By: brother_scum

brother_scum — Tue, 01 Jun 2010 01:46:29 +0000

someone did try to do something they talked to workers at the dhs juvenile correctional fecelity that this nut case worked at but nothing was done to this officer the father was also spoken to and informed something could be done to discourage this man from having anything to do with bailey anymore but the father said ”no let the law handle it” i for one am hurt,saddened and disgraced at the way this was handled and Bailey’s death if i ever see this again going on,i will not fail to correct this situation myself f*** dhs,f*** that juvenile corrections center and f*** that son of a b**** that killed her and SHAME on the ones that new and didn’t do anything about it,if only i would have taken things in my own hands i could’ve ended this and the guilt would’ve been on my hands and Bailey would still be alive to this day to say she loves us everyday and carry on to live her wonderful life.

By: mary

mary — Mon, 04 May 2009 03:25:22 +0000

our luving god didnt & doesnt put anyone anywhere – WE make our decisions as to where we go…..

By: Sierra

Sierra — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 23:30:37 +0000

I Know baileys cousin Sydney

Baileys A good person andn her dad only let her move in with that guy because he was only trying to set an example !!!

Bailey has saved many lives of going wiwth that guy

Love you & miss you Bailey

R.I.P Bailey Rian Thrasher

By: Laura

Laura — Fri, 12 Oct 2007 11:14:43 +0000

I’m not sure why everyone feels the need to place blame on someone after anything happens. The main point is, this young woman died at the hands of some sick and twisted man who snapped one night. Who knows what set him off, but the father really did hope for the best for his daughter. Although his reasoning wasn’t as good as it could be- Many of you could have better reasoning skills yourselves- he was trying to be a helpful father while at the same time trying not to impede on his daughter’s preferences. Any parent knows that this is a hugely difficult thing to do. He may have figured his daughter would rebel against him despite his wishes. It may have been safer for him to know what she was doing rather than to look the other way, because in his mind it could be worse if he did that. It is just unfortunate that the man she was with turned out to be a psychopath.

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By: Another Mother

Another Mother — Fri, 12 Oct 2007 11:13:28 +0000

Bailey was raped and her “father” a**isted through his actions and his inactions. Pure and simple. And a “loving god” would not put a child (a 16yo is a child) in a position to be raped and stabbed to death.

As far as the rest of the family goes, I am sorry for your loss. I hope you have learned a lesson here and will never ever allow a child to go through what Bailey went through. If you haven’t, well then you all have doubly earned the hell you are living through.

Did Bailey get the courtesy and respect that are due all children? Was she so cherished that she wanted to be home rather than live with a man nearly old enough to be her father?

Don’t make any excuses. Bailey is dead because YOU ALL made excuses for your own inactions. The only compa**ion that I, as a rational mother can have, is for Bailey’s younger siblings.

By: James

James — Thu, 20 Sep 2007 06:52:55 +0000

I didn’t really know Bailey, but I ran into her a few times, she waited on me at the restraunt and everything, but I went to her service a couple of weeks ago and ever since then I can’t seem to go a day without thinking about her. She had a rough life, but it seemed to finally be turning around and going somewhere until this man ended it. I am a strong christian and I know Bailey is in heaven today. I pray that I never stop thinking about Bailey. I wish i could have had the pleasure of being her friend. God bless the family and friends. Ashley I’m sorry there are people on here that have no courtesy or respect, as long as you know the truth of the situation, may you have strength over them.

Psalm 32:10
Many are the woes of the wicked,
but the LORD’s unfailing love
surrounds the man who trusts in him.

God bless you Bailey, you are finally free. [12.30.90 - 9.1.07]

By: Melissa Stringer

Melissa Stringer — Fri, 14 Sep 2007 04:10:43 +0000

I will pray for you, May God Bless you & your family & soften your heart. I will continue to pray for you & all family members & friends of Bailey’s involved. May she rest in peace always, she is in A far better place than we are & I will love seeing her again when it is our time, Aunt Melissa

By: Anon

Anon — Fri, 14 Sep 2007 02:29:48 +0000

Whoa. Way to pa** judgment on people in a terrible time. I’m an outsider and it DOES look bad. But it’s not my place to judge and publicly condemn a whole family, especially on the internet while hiding behind initials. No matter whose fault it was, Bailey’s father WILL pay and pay for the rest of his life. I’d hate to be in his sh**s, with my kid dead and always wondering what I could have done differently.

If you feel so strongly you should state in publicly and stand behind your words. Better yet, just display a little simple compa**ion.

By: RM

RM — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 12:40:35 +0000

All we are hearing out of you if how holy your family is. What a joke. You still did not respond about all of darin‘s kid’s now being on State funded insurance and lying about his income. There are a lot of us in Yukon that know your deadbeat family. What about Darin admitting on the news and the paper about letting Baileys move in with this Sick’o and he said it would may help her. I will do every thing under our power to make sure Darin is prouscited to the fullest. We will be bringing the national media in on this. All every one hears from you is how holy your family well we all can read threw the lines of your fake self just like the make believe Elvis bs. Any one that would eat in this family Busimess after know how you people are o well. The trust fund is nothing more than a scam like the rest of Darin life. Good luck you sick’o

By: Melissa Stringer

Melissa Stringer — Wed, 12 Sep 2007 17:40:44 +0000

Dear RM,
Everything you have claimed about my brother is wrong!
You apparently don’t know our family & how much love we share & how much Bailey loved her entire family- especially her dad & mom,& of course her siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins,& all family members.
My brother loves his children more than anything & supports them always. He did not allow her to move in with this sicko, she ran away to move to be with this brain washing pervert, she was determined to do what she wanted & what Robert made her do & we all did things to prevent it & authorities were notified on several occasions by several people, but did no investigations on any of the reports, Bailey & Robert both would deny to anyone that they were together. My brother tried several times to get her to go with him to the authorities & she was scarred & refused, they would not do anything without her telling it & admitting it. Everyone that knew Bailey loved her, wanted the best for her, & did what was humanly possible to help her in every way possible. My brother had nothing to do with the memorial fund at All, I set it up myself along with A friend of the family’s that is A great customer & vice president of the bank- So don’t talk when you have no idea what you are saying- I set it up to help with other things that have not been paid for-like A nice headstone & anything else her mother & father decide to do with it for Bailey. All funds raised are being split between the mother & father, the statements are in the mothers name & they are thankful I set it up for them. No one is tring to make money off of our families horrible nightmare, so again- unless you know the facts, you should keep your thoughts in your own head & not lie to others. We are a christian family & are members of Victory Christian Center of Warr Acres, my brother is the one who got the whole family starting to go to this church over 7 years ago, Thanks to Darin, Bailey was saved by the blood of Jesus Christ at our chuch that we are all regular members of & is in heaven in peace, so everyone should let her rest in peace. I am so glad there are no more tears in heaven, because she would be crying about these lies being told about her father that she loved so much, she is A HERO & is always going to be remembered & loved forever by everyone that knew her.
Yes, we are not perfect, but there is only one who is. My side of the family has had A very difficult life since we were born, & yes he used to do drugs & was an alcoholic for years, but thanks to the Lord, he has been drug & alcohol free for over 10 years now & we are changing our family tree with the help of the Lord. There is no drugs or drug dealing anywhere near our Diner or there house, Both of our families quit experimental drugs 8 to 10 years ago, we
have families that we love with all our hearts, do everything we can for them,& raise them with the best of our ability & the rest is up to God & what his plans are. God knows what he is doing & knows the exact day we are going to be born & the exact day we are going to join him at the gates of heaven to live in eternal peace & happiness. My other niece & Bailey’s mother would love to sometime move back to there home town, I will love to see them back because we all love them both & are still like family, Bailey’s mom is like my sister & we love each other very much.
Don’t you think we are going through A tough enough time dealing with our flesh & blood being murdered, You should see that the only bad guy in our family tradgedy is ROBERT ROBERSON, he is the one that tortured my gorgious niece & our entire family for months- He is the only bad guy & is finally where he has needed to be for A long time. We can sit here & blame people all day long for what happened, but that is not going to bring Bailey back to us, She is in heaven looking down on us & waiting for us to join her when the Lord says it is time for us to meet her & our other loved ones. I will pray for you, Roberts family & his 2 little girls, & will continue praying for my entire family,that we can all have peace & live the most Godly life we can & never forget our precious Bailey. I pray you do the same & I would love to invite you to visit our church, It has changed my life & heart to live for & trust in the Lord & that All things are possible through Jesus Christ. My brother & I are teaching our kids this too. Thank you Jesus for all of your blessing to everyone. This is my final post, I know the facts & God knows the facts, & everyone that knows our family knows we are good people. I don’t need to look at any more negative & false statements, there is just no good that comes out of trying to hurt others at their worst moments in life. Thanks to all who speak the truth & have the facts straight. Aunt Melissa